The hunger month is not over unless you see the moon!

Ramadan finished, wow! from tomorow i can have my everyday glass of tea between my clesses in university...! it's really nessesary for my life!

the last day of Ramadan is "Fetr" which is a religious holiday in islamic countries.... but nobody knows when it exactly is unless they see the moon in sky the night before! strange, ha? ...

over here everybody thought yesterday was the holiday, just like many other islamic countreis around iran, but iranian mullahs always like to look different,so they said " nope! we didnt see the moon in sky and the Fetr holiday in iran will be on Wednesday instead of Tuesday!" and what can we do except saying "ok!!!!"

" from Sidny Phelan"

An old man lived alone in Idaho. He wanted to spade his potato garden, but it was very hard work. His only son, Bubba, who used to help him, was in prison. The old man wrote a letter to his son and described his predicament.

Dear Bubba:
I am feeling pretty bad because it looks like I won't be able to plant my potato garden this year. I'm just getting too old to be digging up a garden plot. If you were here, all my troubles would be over. I know you would dig the plot for me.

Love, Dad

A few days later, he received a letter from his son.

Dear Dad:
For heaven's sake, Dad, don't dig up that garden. That's where I buried the BODIES.
Love, Bubba

At 4 a.m. the next morning, FBI agents and local Police showed up and dug up the entire area without finding any bodies. They apologized to the old man and left.
That same day, the old man received another letter from his son.

Dear Dad:
Go ahead and plant the potatoes now. It's the best I could do under the circumstances.
Love, Bubba

i was shocked after i heared those horrible news!!!

KHOOZESTAN, is the name of a poor province in south of iran,

their people are poor, and poverty never lets culture grow in a good way,

the only thing which is worth for their men, is their nasty prejudice! which has changed them into cruel animals!!

45 young girls were murdered by their close families in just 1 month!
one of them was a girl whose brother had found a card! in her books, a card with no any name or writing on it, the brother killed her, because the girl could never prove that she had not got the card from a boy!!!

it was a few months ago that one of these horrible stories was published to media, a man who cut his 4 year old daughter's head, because he thought the little girl had been raped by her uncle ( the man's brother, and he didn't think of killing the brother, but a small innocent four year old child)!

all of these amateur murderers have a common reason, they say that they wanted to keep their honour, although they loved their families!

what makes them think their sisters or doughters relationships with opposite sex may disturb their honours?

whats makes them think that their honour can be more important than a human's life?

what makes them this much cruel, to take a knife and cut the head of their young sisters or daughters?

whats makes the government keep silence about these disasters?

and, what makes the whole world not to care for those innocent girls who are living in that hell ?

Some people are used to confuse between the real life and the life of poesy & romance....! i'm talking about those with the famous habitual phrase "MONEY CAN'T MAKE ANYBODY LUCKY!"... why are they thins much ineterested in pretending ?

they don't like the title of "Ordinary person" being sticked to them,,? or perhaps they don't have the courage of accepting low reality of this world...! or perhaps they have never tasted the bitter flavor of a real poverty..!

one of them was talking to me today,,, she said that her father used to be very rich , but he had bankrupt, and they had lost everything, and she had been living in a situation that family had money only for their food and nothing else! but after a period of time the situation got ok again...

her story was told and then her romantic opinion was that her family members were closer and more kind in those difficult days,, and said that after that God helped them and they again had money... i asked her, how much time did that poverty last? she answered 5 months!

well ,, the puzzle is solved! it had been just a variety in your life and thats why you can have such romantic point of view about it! now tell me, what if a dear member of your family got sick and you had to be a witness of her/his death because you couldn't afford the medical care?

HHHHmmmmmm she started thinking ,, and said "No, God wouldn't let it happen" ... but there are lots of these cases happening at the moment around us and noboy cares, not even God!

Isn't it funny? the governmental laws and rules in Iran (with a semi-modern society) are defined from the pattern which had been followed by savage Arabian tribes in about 1400 years ago! they used to neglect all women's rights, just like most other countries in that old time, but the silly point is that we are still obeying them,...!

In the law book of Islamic Republic of Iran you can find such clear discriminations against women that makes the reader doubt if the edition date of the book is really 2003!!!

for instances:

a wife must not leave the house without permission of her husband! and if she leaves house for 1 hour, and her husband doesn't agree, he can go to a court and say it to the judge...!!

a girl can not get marry (for 1st time) anyone unless her father permit her, and it makes no different if she is 18 or 38 years old!

a husband can get divorce from his wife any time he wants ( just if he pays a specified amount of money which had been defined in marriage day)... but a wife cannot get divorce this easily,, she has to bring some special reasons for the court prove them somethings like he beats her, he drinks,, or things like that!

in a court, witnessing of a man equals to 2 women!!!

there are some jobs that are forbidden for women : being president of the country, religious leader (marja'e taghlid) or being a judge..!!

a man can have more than 1 wife (up to 4)!!!

It is forbidden for a female (!) to ride a bike or motorcycle! if the police see her, they can arrest her!

there are thousands of these silly discriminations in the rules of iran which are applying right now in the courts, families, and totally entire ISLAMIC society..!! they are like dark shadows, following you during your life, always reminding you that in this religion, you are considered as slaves and men are masters!!

it can be really so painful for any girl and woman with self-respect, injure the pride badly!!!